New Moon in Cancer - June 27, 2014

New Moon in Cancer begins today.  Cancer represents the womb of the universe and the chance to create and give birth to some emotional changes.  It is a chance for you to make some changes on how you feel about yourself and the world.  Your emotions decide your belief system and this is what anchors you into an ocean that can feel like a storm and you are barely hanging on. 

Specifically it is a new moon in Cancer at 5 degrees which casts a magical light on the Earth for a fresh start.  We just came out of the Mars/Uranus and Pluto which could make you feel overemotional at times like everything is happening at once.  You will feel a bit more support as things soften up and give you some nourishment to take better care of yourself.  The symbol for Cancer can represent turning on the sacred Divine Feminine to mother and take care of ourselves.

Some relevant themes under this new moon are; emotional awareness, nourishing, nurturing, belonging, family, habits, gut instinct, as well as emotional security.

Take a bath in salt water today to connect with nourishing yourself and the deep connection we have to water  “During this time, Mars in Libra makes a ‘inconjunct’ aspect to Chiron in Pisces retrograde.  Old wounds from relationships might resurface but this is a great time to look at it from a different perspective so you can give birth to forgiveness.

Mercury in Gemini retrograde slowly making its way by transit towards stationing to go Direct on July 1st, 2014. Bringing up old wounds is frustrating and takes alot of effort to communicate properly and fairly.  Be patient and the effort during this time will bring you smooth sailing.  You have some extra support right now and things will start to ease off July 1.

Hope you found this interesting and informative. I love sharing how you can use universal frequencies to change your own.  We live in an amazing place where there is support coming from the universal consciousness.  You are not alone.

Namaste,

Psychic Protection or Promoting Being A Victim?

I have been teaching and experiencing the world of Spirit for years.  I have seen and worked with thousands of clients, stood on stages, given talks and have watched amazing things happen.   I feel truly blessed with having the chance to work with people and helping them develop their own psychic ability.  I know what I am going to write about, some will not agree with, and that is ok.  I am not even saying that I am right.  I am just giving you something to think about when it comes to psychic protection.

I get questions about this topic often.  Some of the things that I remind people are that we create our own reality by intent and energy.  We create our perception and thus the environment that we choose to be receptive to.  Quantum physics tells us that all possibilities are available to us in forms of waves to choose from.  To choose you need to be protected means you choose to live in a place where you are in danger and need somebody to watch over you so you do not get hurt.  This thought wave creates a place and calls out to the universe to manifest something to need protection from because you wanted to protect yourself.   

THE ONLY THING YOU NEED PROTECTION FROM IS YOUR MIND.

In Trilotherapy we are trained in Western Psychology AND Eastern Zen Buddhism.  The Buddha once said the following things;

“The mind is everything.  What you think you become”.

“We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think.  When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves”.

How can your mind tell you that you are not safe to feel safe?  I do not understand.  It is getting you into the mindset of victimhood instead of a mindful creation.   Do not get me wrong, you are always creating, but you are creating without mindfulness.  You are creating what you do not want then blaming the “unsafe” universe.   Living in the light means that you ARE the light, not that you are in the dark with somebody flashing a spot light on you when they choose and then leaving you afraid and alone in the dark.   If you label something as “dark” or “evil” your mind will do everything it can to perceive it that way.   Think of a child that hears a monster banging at their window at night and the relief they feel when their parent turns on the light to show them it is simply a tree hitting their window.  The fear goes away instantly in the light once they know the truth.  

When you promote fear you are shining your dark on your mind.  The mind has to then create a whole new reality to match your thought patterns.  It is harder to block a river then to let it flow and it takes a lot of maintenance to keep the damn up. You are the light and in the light there is no darkness that exists but when you choose to step out of it into the illusion of others that darkness exists.  Do you stand in the sun, cover your eyes with your hand, then exclaim that the sun disappeared and we are all in danger of dying?  Sunglasses are protection from the damage we did to our ozone layer.  We were safe till we destroyed it, and are now fearful of the sun.  Do you see the poor in Africa wearing sunglasses?  No.  They are not all blind.  They have bigger things to fear like food, housing and clean water.  

My suggestion to you is that when you think you need psychic protection it is because you have chosen to cover your eyes from your own light and then fear the darkness you created.  Instead we find out why you don’t feel safe.  What happened to you that made you doubt your light and the amazing ability of your Spirit Guides and Angels.  To call in your Angels and be the light is confirming your place in this light.  To then protect yourself means you doubt this, thus creating fear.

Here is a list of what some people think they need protection from to stand in the light and never be a victim again.  They can stand in the dark and you can witness them from the light.  Do not leave your light to stand in their dark to find light that you already had.

Energy drainers: You are afraid to say no and draw boundaries because you think people wont like you if you say no.  People pleaser.

Negative Spirit Attachment:  You covered your light to see their dark and instead of having compassion for it and helping them to see their light, you saw their fear and became their darkness and are now feeding it.

It is Scary out there in the Spirit World: somebody who is afraid taught you to be afraid.  You simply do not understand how the universe works and the microcosmic world of creation that our Science is now having the ability to detect and prove.  

Ghosts haunt me:  Understanding consciousness, string theory and the multiverse.  I am not saying they are not there, but to say they are there to harm you is the only thing that harms you.

These are just a few examples.  I have been trained to work with “dark energies” from the other side and have seen many terrible manifestations of fear at work.  Fear created from the physical world from my clients, and also the ghost living in fear.   I have yet to meet anybody that is afraid of the dark when they ARE the light.  Sharing with the Spirit that they are the light too is the only thing you need to do.  

This comes with confidence and training under the right mentor and teacher.  If the things I said to you do not make sense and covering your eyes to say you are in the dark feels better… you have free will.  Just be careful of what you create and then give the responsibility of your creation to others and label them for your creation.  The only constant in life is change.   When you change your mind that you are always in the light, this is the only “protection” that you need.    When you stay in the light, you can see more anyways….

My readings as an evidential medium, (meaning I give proof), have touched the lives and shone light onto so many others without fear and heaviness.  I only back up my theory by my clients and how I feel about working.   I would not enjoy my work so much if I felt I was not safe every time I worked.   

Try this experiment.   You know your bedroom very well right?  You walk in there hundreds of times.   Think of a shirt you know is hanging in your closet right now.  Go to your bedroom door and walk in with your eyes closed.  You cannot look down and see if there is anything on the floor or if you might step on something.  Try to go to your closet and pick that shirt.   You can touch and feel and move things around if you want to but once you pick it you cannot change your mind.  Open your eyes.  How did you do?  How long did it take?  How did you feel while you were doing it?  Were you anxious and worried you would be wrong?  Were you moving slower because you thought you might be stepping on things?  Were you right?

Now lets do it with the lights on.  Go on and actually walk through the experiment not just read about it.  Your mind works better when it has something tactile (something real in this world you can touch), instead of just reading about a thought and a theory.  By doing it, it becomes reality and a new thought process to draw upon.  

How did you do with the lights on?  Was it faster?  Were you more confident and relaxed?  Was it more enjoyable with the lights on?  Were you right?

It is your choice to stand in the dark of your life and be afraid of what you cannot see, or you can simply accept you are light.  You do call yourself “light workers” and not “dark workers” don’t you?   Time to step up to your own label and do not try to work in the light while fearing the possibility that you are dark.  It is costing you your confidence and your trust.  It is not worth the exchange, trust me.

Protect yourself from the darkness your mind creates instead.

Namaste,

Why Journey Into Your Own Akashic Records?

Is life really the gamble we think it is?  Or is it really all laid out for you in a straight form of destiny that once you get here, you have no control over?   You may have heard the theory that you have chosen everything that is going to happen to you while you are here on Earth before you came down.  You sat with your Spirit Guides and Spirit Family and decided what lessons needed to be learned and how you would like to go about it.  You plotted out the best path for your souls evolution at this time.  You choose the game, the players and even the pieces.  

I too agree with all this but this does not leave out the possibility for poor choices once you are here.  See the thing that people tend to forget is that we have free will once we incarnate.  Just because we made a plan does not mean we are in shackles to be held to it.  Any woman who knows that they “planned” to lose ten pounds before the summer bikini season begins, and things….. well just did not turn out that way, knows what I am talking about.  It does not make you a bad person, or even make you wear the label as “failure”.  Your priorities changed.   Your guides do not sit there and judge you for them.  If you have free will then there is no such thing as judgment, just consequences to these choices.

How do you keep track of all these choices through all these lives?   We are one of the souls that incarnate that does not remember our past lives when we are born.  There is no accumulation of this knowledge some think.  I promote the possibilities that all this knowledge is stored in your DNA, but that is for another time.  

It would be great if there was somebody keeping track of not just the blunders we make with our choices, but also the successes.  When we transition back to Spirit we would need to know everything and be able to look back to track our progression and move forward without the judgment, resentment, blame or guilt.  We need a place where only those that love us and understand us keep these records so there is no bias that the human soul is famous for.  There is only truth in love.

The Akashic Records are this place.  Your book of life.  It is mentioned in some way, shape or form in most religions.  Even the bible speaks of this record.

Revelation 20:11-15; "Then I saw a great White Throne and him who was seated on it. Earth and sky fled from his presence, and there was no place for them. And I saw the dead, great and small, standing before the throne, and THE BOOKS WERE OPENED. Another book was opened WHICH IS THE BOOK OF LIFE. The dead were judged according to their works as recorded in the books. The sea gave up the dead that were in it, and death and Hades gave up the dead that were in them, and each person was judged according to their works.”

The Akashic Records are not as “judgmental” as the Bible is perhaps.  It simply records your choices.  A pencil does not judge Math or English, it simple records it. The pencil does not decide what 1+1 equals, it just records if you think it is 2 or 3 or 4 or 5.  The choices are endless what you think it is, not what it actually is.  The pencil simply records what you think and did with that information.

What you can do while in your own Records, once you learn how to access them properly and with respect, is amazing.  You can:

See into past lives.

Find traumas you lived before that is affecting your decision making now.

See if you traveled with a person before and settle old debts.

See if you are holding on to past lives physical ailments you can let go of.

See patterns that you are in and get OUT of them.

Find contracts you wrote with your Spiritual team and review them.

End contracts that are not working out so well for you.

Find forgiveness in your own life.

Discover where your gifts lay.

What is your life purpose?

What is the best career for you?

Were you so connected with a certain person and you don’t know why?

Bring back gifts and abilities from past lives into this life.

Find confidence and understanding.

Understand the reasons behind struggles and traumatic events.

See the bigger picture for spiritual growth.

And so much more.....

Why is it important to understand how to gain access to your Records properly?  Well do you want anybody walking around your book that does not understand it?  Your book is safe.  It is guarded by Spiritual Light stronger than anybody here.  The only issue is that if read wrong or interpreted poorly, it can lead you to making some decisions based on improper data.  You want to respect it.  Everybody has access to his or her own records at all times, but to do it in a form that is best for your spiritual growth is essential.  I have come across some that have had Akashic Record readings and well let’s just say you can tell where human judgment came in and where the Records did not.

At Om we teach you how to make your life better by understanding your spiritual journey and evolution.  Be gentle on yourself.  If you were perfect, you would not be here.  You were meant to make mistakes and to learn and grow.  Some things that you think are mistakes are actually catalysts to huge changes you have been trying to make for lifetimes and in the long run can be celebrated. 

We can teach you:  How the Records work.  Who is in charge of them.  How to safely gain access and who is allowed to gain access to them.  Different ways to actually read your transcriptions.   How to ask for changes.  How to help you understand the hardships in your life.  How to make sure they are closed properly when you are done.  What types of questions to ask.   Meditations on how to see your records whenever you want to.  

The Akashic Records.  Your book of life.  It is your creation.  Take the pen in your hand and create the life you always wanted.  

Our Next Workshop is Saturday May 31, 2014 in Calgary Alberta.  Email us at thehomeofom@hotmail.com to register or ask any questions.  I also do Akashic Record readings at the studio, online or by phone. 

Namaste,

Tips On How to Recognize Past Life Memories

We are thought to be one of the only light energies that reincarnate with blank memories. We have to learn to walk and talk again and do not have access to all the things we have learned before…….or do we? Recent studies of our DNA have shown us that there really may be no such thing as “junk DNA”, but instead they believe that your DNA has the ability to hold past life memories. How amazing is that?

What does this mean for you? It means that you are a walking Google! Things that you need to know are right at your fingertips. Lessons learned, knowledge stored, paths to your life purpose and fundamentals to your soul are always with you at a rate faster than any computer known on this planet. Your brain has the ability to access your subconscious mind and speak to the recordings in your DNA through love, joy and relaxation.

I am a double certified past life regressionist and I have seen so many remarkable changes in people from one session. Understanding life is all we really want. Once we feel we understand things, calmness comes over us and we make peace with it and we move on in a better way. I have seen a simple understanding of a situation instantly heal it in seconds. Past lives can hold so many keys and you are holding them in your pocket right now.

Here is a list of some questions you may want to ask yourself to start accessing those memories.

• Have you ever just instantly liked or not liked somebody you just met?
• Have you ever been to a new place and felt like you have been there before?
• While in meditation have you had a flashback where you felt different then you do right now?
• For example, felt shorter, taller, felt masculine or feminine, could feel wrinkles on your face or anything along those lines?
• Do you have an attraction to a certain time period in history?
• Do you have a natural ability at some talent?Do you feel you have a larger calling to be here than you are realizing at the moment but just not sure what it is?

These are just some questions that you can ask yourself that are quite common in most people that are open to the idea about past life regressions. Sometimes the stored information in your DNA can just make your body react spontaneously. Have you ever gotten goose bumps before when talking to somebody or hearing new information? It is your brain releasing neurons that are releasing the information in your body through the release of adrenaline. In humans adrenaline is released when we feel cold or afraid but also if under stress and feel strong emotions such as anger or excitement. Pay attention to the expression of goose bumps on your arms, legs or back of the neck. You may also just get the shivers. It means your body and your spirit has reacted to the stimuli of information.

Our society today has been teaching us to go more and more outside of ourselves to find our joy and ourselves. From movies, to the Internet to cell phones, we are constantly bombarded with outside stimuli so much that noticing our own body speaking to us can sometimes go by basically unnoticed. Start to notice it. Start to pay attention to yourself instead of others. What are your body and your soul trying to express to you? You have all the answers you ever needed inside of yourself and you are asking others to show you the way back to yourself by coming outside of yourself. No wonder it does not feel good and you are constantly looking for approval from others, as you do not know how to approve of yourself.

The following are some simple observations I have noted while seeing past life regressions. By no means it is meant to identify your personal issue or destiny, it is just meant to share so you can see if you can relate to some of the results of others. Remember to pay attention to how your body reacts when reading them. It can be a clue that you have experienced the situation before and your body is asking for help in healing this.

Cannot trust anybody: Past betrayal of somebody close to you in a past life

Having trouble finding a love interest: May be holding onto a past lover

Physical Illness: Past self had this or trauma from how you died

Difficult Specific Relationships: Having travelled with that person before and having unsettled karma

Fears or Phobias: You had a trauma with them in a past life being held in your cellular memories

Feeling Stuck: You are afraid to move forward because of past persecutions when you have before.

Anxiety: You are holding on to fearful and scary memories from how you died

Depression: Lost a child, Died alone, or even past lives where you choose to take your own life.

Defensive: Been accused of something you did not do.

These are just an example of some traumas we have worked with and been able to understand, and thus settle. Past life regression has an amazing ability to take you to a place of better understanding and finding out the reason so you can turn trauma to lessons of wisdom and make them beneficial. If we can help you in any way please contact us.

We also do past life readings long distance if you find yourself in an amazing part of the world besides Calgary and feel you need some assistance and guidance on finding your GOOGLE!

Namaste,

Men

Men. We love you and you drive us nuts sometimes. Trust us, we know the feeling is mutual. This is a short blog to the women that have men in their lives that can withdraw emotionally. These can be your partners, your sons, your brothers, friends, co-workers or any man you come into contact with.

I read an interesting article written by a man that said it was hard for him to historically be the one that protects the family…. Be able to kill to protect their loved ones. How do you go from somebody that would kill to somebody that would be vulnerable? In that situation it is eat or be eaten. Survival instincts would tell us ALL, men and women alike, to survive and not be eaten.

Studies show us that men do not have the same ability as women to read emotions of others. They just don’t have the same neurons connecting to emotions that women do. This happens at a very young stage of the fetus. All humans start out as female, then at about six weeks, things change. The neurons that continue to grow towards forming community and communication for the female fetus are branched off to start forming the Y-chromosomes to promote a protein called the H-Y antigen. There are many things changing here and one of them is the concentration of sex and aggression that sometimes comes alone with the need to produce sperm. Think about it, if men did not have the ability to beat a competitor, then he could not mate and his DNA would not survive. Without men ladies, we could not have our babies. You cannot hate what you love as well. How can you tell a man you love that part of them but only when you need it and if he needs it, it is bad and punish him for it?Talk about confusing.

When they withdrawn they are simply trying to do what is so easy for us. They are trying to process the emotions without reacting in a way that will hurt you. Their first instinct is to get angry to defend and concour. If they love you they do not want to do that. When they have in the past they then deal with the shame and guilt of it. Allow them to take the time to process the emotions and make good choices on what to do with them. They are not withdrawing from you or not loving you, they are figuring out how to love you better. Support them; do not attack them when they are vulnerable as well.

Women it is time to start teaching men through supportive means not attacking and rubbing salt in the wounds of the past. When somebody withdraws their love because they are scared and confused, it is not a time to withdraw yours. It is a time to step up and love them more. If they are there, they are trying. Love them while they do. They are learning how to move into their heart chakra. They are moving their heart chakra into their solar plexus as we are moving our solar plexus energy into our heart chakra. Be strong for them so they can figure it out.

They love you or they would not take the time to step back to make sure they don’t hurt you. Love them for trying. They will fall down just as a baby does learning to walk. Every man, no matter how sweet and emotionally secure, will fall at some point. Help them up, don’t kick them. Be a woman in service of love not insecurity and watch your relationships blossom into something beautiful.

Namaste,

What if you could never be hurt again?

What if you could never be hurt again? What if you could tear down the walls of protection and “shields” others are teaching you to put up and just love? Are you saying you don’t care in order to protect yourself from not knowing how to care and not get hurt? How can somebody who is trying to help you tear down your walls and love again instruct you to put more up but just call them “shields” instead of walls and think it is going to help?

It is progress. A wall means you are defending yourself and afraid of an attack. The ancients built walls around their castles or villages to keep others out. The wall that you build around you is indeed keeping others out but it is also keeping you in. You can only grow within in constraints you have made for yourself within these walls of fear. You are growing in fear, perhaps not the way you want to grow at all. Would you expect a flower to grow if you hid it in the dark and kept it in a tiny box so it had no room to grow at all?

A shield is something that may be lighter to hold than a wall, and you have with you incase you need it. This means, like a warrior in battle, you need to carry it with you at all times. Shields, whether they are forged of steal or light are a heavy burden to carry. It means you are not sure if you are safe. It means you do not know if you can put it down. Try sitting here and holding your arms out at shoulder length for even 5 minutes and you will feel tired and strained. You are feeling this and you are not even carrying anything yet! Imagine that you are now carrying around a fear that somebody might attack you. You got uncomfortable after 5 minutes; imagine what you are doing to your mind and your body by doing it for years. It leaves you with anxiety and never knowing whom to trust. It does something even worse; it tells you that you cannot trust yourself to know whom to trust. Losing faith and trust in yourself? There is no shield big enough to stop the damage that is done from the inside out.

What if you never needed a wall or a shield? What if you understood that nobody could ever hurt you again in your life? You are the only person that can hurt you by believing their threats and their fears. They are going through their own journey and their own battles. The world tries to avoid World War Three because it means that the entire world suffers due to the arguments and indignities of a few. It does not mean that we turn in blindness to suffering but we do not need to suffer to be helpful and wise leaders. The world created The United Nations to help this. What do you have? You have the ability to have a united body, mind and spirit to help you understand that others can try to attack you, but when you know you are safe, you never feel threatened. 

When you never feel threatened and have compassion for the fact that they feel this way, you can actually lower defenses and embrace them with love. When somebody is afraid they are not loveable, when you put up a shield and stop giving yours to them, you are showing them this is true. When others are in fear of lack of love, this is when you should step up yours and give yours more freely, not protect your own. Self worth and self love is a Taurus of energy that provides you to create so much love that you can give it away at will and it not cost you a thing.

When somebody is trying to hurt you and you let them, you have hurt yourself by not having enough self-esteem and self worth to understand that they cannot take what is not theirs. Do we go around holding shields from ants? There are trillions of them living around us at all times. Do they affect our ability to love and feel safe? No they do not. We do not need to live in fear and many of you will lovingly go out of your way to not even step on one. Yes there are red ants that may bite but they bite because they think they are going to die and need to protect themselves. You avoid them and let them live in peace. Why are you running around thinking that every person has the ability to take away your right to love yourself? They are giving you a chance to love yourself and you should step up to the plate and do it. You will feel much better.

Love is weightless and kind. It needs no effort to carry and is unlimtless in its supply. When you give when others attack, you are showing them they are loveable even at their worse times. This in turn makes you a walking Buddha of love and compassion. When you love others that are in pain, you are truly loving yourself as well by knowing you are safe and loved…. ALWAYS.

Namaste,