I help people connect to their Spirit Guides all the time. Clients are always surprised how easy it is with me and how it affects them. Some get goose bumps, some cry, some just have a satisfied sense of knowledge and others look around not sure why they suddenly knew all the answers. They asked to know something, were given the answers, and then doubt the validity of it because it was not shrouded in secret or shame.
Do not throw away what you have been seeking because you did not have to work hard for it or ask ten different people for the answer. It is as silly as holding your breath because breathing in and out is unassisted and natural to you.
Who are your Spirit Guides? They are spirits that have crossed over that you have invited to walk with you on this plane. What we need to remember is that every soul born here has one. You do not need to worry about somebody being lost or “asleep” because their guides are with them as well. They are on their path and their path is not your path. Do not judge another’s journey. We have free will. Your guides cannot go against your free will, even if your free will is to dismiss their presence.
Lets do a quick exercise. It is important that you answer the question before you continue reading. Simply ask your guide to communicate with you. There is no need for special crystals, meditation or prayer, although they all can help, they are not the driving force. Simply pick 1, 2 or 3. Ask your guide to help you. It is all right if you do not know them, they know you. Pick the first number that pops into your head even if you are unsure.
If you picked one, your guide is a friend from another life.
If you picked two, your guide is a family member from a past life
If you picked three, your guide is a mentor here to teach you that you have invited in that you may have known before or is new to you.
How many guides do you have? This is personal and different for us all depending on our journey. Your guides can change as you grow and learn. Think back in school, you had different teachers along the way. When you passed and went to another grade the old teacher was not bad or disappeared, they were busy teaching others that needed to know what they had to teach. You got a new teacher. If you ever had a question the previous teacher was still there to answer questions for you and be your friend. You do have a main guide that is yours through your whole life. I suggest that is the guide you connect to first because you can build up a friendship with them so you can understand how they communicate better and better.
Some will tell you that you can only have a certain amount of guides, just bless them that somebody limited them. Go to a library and some say you can only take out 6 books, your library you can take out as many as you need because there is no fear you will lose the book, damage it or not return it! All knowledge is yours for the asking. Let’s just say I take out a lot of books. Have you ever taken out a book or bought a book really excited about reading it, then never really did? Or did you read a few chapters and life got in the way? Did you used to love reading but then got too busy and the book was put aside for the reality of your life? Are you a reader who forgot to make reading important?
The Difference between your own mind and a guide speaking to you.
- Your mind is dismissive, Guides mind is constant
- Your mind tells you different things, Guides mind is consistent
- Your mind tells you that you cant do things, Guides mind tells you that you can
- Your mind tells you how to do things quick, Guides mind tells you how to do it right
- Your mind makes you feel stupid, Guides mind teaches you with love
- Your mind protects yourself, Guides mind reminds us of oneness
- Your mind tells you there is not enough, Guide mind reminds of abundance
- Your mind fills you with doubt, Guides mind fills you with curiosity
- Your mind reacts, Guides mind responds
- Your mind holds you back, Guides mind brings you forward
These are just a few examples of how you can tell the difference. Basically what it comes down to is your mind fills you with doubt and your guides support you. It does not mean that they are always rainbows and sunshine. They still help support you to be a better person but never out of shame or a sense of lack. It is always by awakening and shining light on the beautiful parts of you your mind said to forget.
How to connect with them. First you have to invite them in. Make sure you invite guides of only the highest white light guides. You can call on guides you don’t know. If you are learning something new, ask for a guide to help you. When I was doing math when I was in high school I was asking Einstein to help me. Darned if the guy did not show up.
The most important thing is for you to talk to them. So what if at first you think it is just an imaginary friend you have. At least this imaginary friend is supportive, linked to love and creation and knows you are worthy of great things. Your imaginary friend that you call your mind is just mean to you a lot of the times. If you are going to have an imaginary friend, might as well be a nice one right? Name them. Whatever you want to name them, name them. It is all right. I remember when I first started and sat in a circle with people that had been doing it for a long time and they said their guide’s names were “ Running White Buffalo”, “Zeron” and “Priestess Albia”. Imagine my surprise when my guide came through and just said “ Joe”. Mine was not this mystical “powerful” name, but my Joe. He was so cute, he even apologized that his name was so ordinary. “ Just your normal Joe”. Was their guide better than my guide? That is not a game they play, we do. I felt warm and fuzzy and like a friend walked into a room. Do not judge, observe.
It is ok if you get it “wrong” at first. They will help you along the way. I called one Guide Pierre for 6 months because he said he was from France. He told me later his name was Jean Claude. I asked him why he did not correct me before and informed me that the name did not matter and the soul has no name but ONE. Beautiful. See, my mind, I got it wrong, his mind, it did not matter. My imaginary friend of the mind told me I was bad and took confidence from me, his mind gave me acceptance.
Once you start talking to them like they are real, they become real. You will notice that sometimes when your mind is busy asking a question, there is a sense of knowledge in the back of your head that already answered the question. You will start to become aware of the split seconds of time difference between you creating an answer and you observing an answer. This is best to do talking out loud because your brain uses more neurons and goes into a meditative mode when listening.
Some tools that can help. It is no secret that I love crystals. They work with the energy of your body and balance it out with the energy of the crystal. They work on an electromagnetic field that we all have. There is no way crystals cannot work and it actually takes more energy for you to believe they don’t work then to allow them to work. Think how much energy it would take to block a stream than to let it flow. You can search the Internet and it will tell you others opinions of what works for them. It is important to know what works for your connection. To get you started I am going to name a few that work well for my students and clients.
Ametrine- I love this crystal because it is a combination of amethyst and citrine. It will allow your crown chakra to open up with purpose and clarity but also let your self worth and self-esteem be positive about believing it. Citrine is also a cleansing stone so will make sure that your affirmation of light is always in your mind.
Clear Quartz- This is the closest crystal frequency to the human frequency and the most abundant on the planet. Coincidence? I also like this crystal because it cleanses out all chakras and allows you to start fresh with your connection. Most people already have a piece and if they do not it is a very inexpensive crystal to get started with.
Rose Quartz- Is a stone of universal love. It is a stone that also balances out all chakras and helps you believe you are one with this love of the universe and your creator. Again it is available everywhere and is an inexpensive crystal. Things do not have to be expensive or large to work. Do not get caught up in it. Buy what you can afford and know Spirit does not care about money, but of intent.
There are stones that are of higher and more intense vibration for those that are more experienced like:
- Moldavite- connection to universal energy. Great for cosmic guides. INTENSE.
- Apotholite and Celestite to connect to the Angelic realm
- Pink Kunzite -is a new favourite as it releases the wall around your heart and stimulates healing connection between your mind and your heart with your guide.
- Amethyst – opens the crown chakra to higher knowledge and energies.
Your connection to your guide is a gift. Somebody trying to give you it is like somebody stealing your watch from you then giving it to you as a gift. We can remind you that you are wearing a watch, help you find it, but never give you what is already yours. You are not alone. You never were. Nobody is alone. Talk to them, invite them in and start a friendship that will change how you see your reality.
Namaste,
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