How do you get more specific readings? Some of the common things people talk about is the need to love oneself more, financial issues and relationship problems, To say to somebody " I feel you need to love yourself more", or " you seem to be stressed about money", or even " they are telling me that you are having problems in a relationship", is all very well and good, but very fluffy. There is no depth to it. They are surface and safe readings that will apply to all. Below are some tips for the beginner to advance to show you how you can dig deeper. Be advised that nobody is more advance than another, we all have the same abilities, and just some practice more.
Some have beginning trust and some have advanced trust.
Let’s use the example of you feeling tension in a relationship. There is nothing real in life till we form a relationship with something. Otherwise, the energy is just bopping around somewhere minding its own business till it bumps into us or we bump into it. Then we have a choice on how to react to that energy exchange. Did we like it? Did it scare us vs. surprise us? We then create new energy from the reaction to the interaction with that energy. Make sense?
Beginner exercise
Tension in a relationship. Let the sitter pull a card. Simple. Gives you a place to start. There is no denying that when the person draws the card instead of you that their energy about this situation is all over their choice. To impress them, when you ask if there is tension in a relationship, ask them to just answer yes or no and not give you any more information just yet. When people are upset or confused they like to talk talk talk. Don’t let them yet because then they gave you the information and you did not have to talk to Spirit, your Guides and Angels to find the answers to show them that they are not alone. Let them know you are doing that for them and feeding you information takes that chance away. When they take the card, simply ask them first if it makes sense. Most of the time they will understand it. Take a few deep breaths, look at the picture and tell them what you see first not what you feel. Describe the card. You get nervous when you think you have to tell a whole story. Remember every story starts with the first word so lets narrow it down to a word not a whole book. You can pick a word right?
Does the energy feel light, dark or confused? Pick one. Ask the sitter if they understand your answer.
Next pick another word. Are the colours and images on the card happy or sad?
Now you take your two words and ask the sitter why they think they chose these cards to describe the situation. When people are in your space for a reading, most of the time they know the answer, they just want confirmation. You helped them get it by choosing between a few words. See you can do this. Continue this process.
Intermediate and Advanced
Let’s work with the four clairs of working. So once again there is tension in a relationship. Do not feel yet. You are going to get so jumbled in their drama, your fear and get them all muddled up. We will do that last. Remember this is about being specific without information.
Clairaudient (clear hearing)
Once again we are going to narrow it down for you instead of trying to figure everything out.
Ask your guides to hear one of these three words: Friend, Family, or Acquaintance
Your goal is to narrow it down.
Lets narrow it down even more
Ask your guide to hear another word; either CLOSE or FAR
This will denote if the relationship is a close friend or family member or its just bugging them a bit.
Clairvoyant (clear seeing)
Ask to see a colour. When you see this colour about this tension, simply tell the sitter what that colour means to you and ask them if it makes sense to the issue. You all know your colours so you will never be left hanging. Here you know you have something that will never leave you even if nervous. You will not forget colours.
Clair cognizance (clear knowing)
Ask your guides to just “drop” an answer in your head. Ask ONE question at a time so your guides can follow your lead. Simply ask them to let you know if it is bothering your sitter a little or a lot. Get your answer. Ask why it is bothering them. Simply tell them what you are being dropped into awareness of. Do not doubt yourself. You don’t know the answer but remember they might not either. There are times where they think it does not bother them much but when you say you think it is more than they know and give them the time to think about it, they will probably agree with you. Trust me, the energy has to be pretty strong for it to come up in a reading.
Clairsentience (clear feeling)
Here is a trick. Do not go into their feelings. Observe them. Ask them. How does it make them feel? Then ask them how they would like to feel instead? Get them to talk about their feelings not YOU feeling THEIR feeling. How can you get to that feeling they want you can ask them? Everybody is connected to their guides and by asking the questions you are helping them find their answers and not telling them what to do. You and your sitter will feel better. When you feel somebody else then you have to unfeel him or her. Some of you do not know how to do this. Your Guides and Angels do.
There you go everybody. I hoped this helped you find a way to start with the first words of the book of everybody’s story. You would get anxious if somebody gave you a 1000 page book and said, “ Here you have 30 seconds to read it and give me a book report”. But, if the person asked you to read the first sentence and tell them what it said, you could do that with confidence and accuracy.
One step at a time gets you there. Remember we see clients privately to help you develop your own abilities that are unique to you. We can see you live but also do phone readings and Skype anywhere in the world. Let us know if we can help you find your way to your gifts.
Namaste,
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