How do I get more specific with my readings?

How do you get more specific readings? Some of the common things people talk about is the need to love oneself more, financial issues and relationship problems, To say to somebody " I feel you need to love yourself more", or " you seem to be stressed about money", or even " they are telling me that you are having problems in a relationship", is all very well and good, but very fluffy. There is no depth to it. They are surface and safe readings that will apply to all.  Below are some tips for the beginner to advance to show you how you can dig deeper.  Be advised that nobody is more advance than another, we all have the same abilities, and just some practice more.

Some have beginning trust and some have advanced trust.

Let’s use the example of you feeling tension in a relationship.  There is nothing real in life till we form a relationship with something.  Otherwise, the energy is just bopping around somewhere minding its own business till it bumps into us or we bump into it.  Then we have a choice on how to react to that energy exchange.  Did we like it?  Did it scare us vs. surprise us?  We then create new energy from the reaction to the interaction with that energy.  Make sense?

Beginner exercise

Tension in a relationship.  Let the sitter pull a card.  Simple.  Gives you a place to start.  There is no denying that when the person draws the card instead of you that their energy about this situation is all over their choice.  To impress them, when you ask if there is tension in a relationship, ask them to just answer yes or no and not give you any more information just yet.  When people are upset or confused they like to talk talk talk.  Don’t let them yet because then they gave you the information and you did not have to talk to Spirit, your Guides and Angels to find the answers to show them that they are not alone.  Let them know you are doing that for them and feeding you information takes that chance away.  When they take the card, simply ask them first if it makes sense.  Most of the time they will understand it.  Take a few deep breaths, look at the picture and tell them what you see first not what you feel.   Describe the card.  You get nervous when you think you have to tell a whole story.  Remember every story starts with the first word so lets narrow it down to a word not a whole book.  You can pick a word right?

Does the energy feel light, dark or confused?  Pick one.  Ask the sitter if they understand your answer.

Next pick another word.  Are the colours and images on the card happy or sad?

Now you take your two words and ask the sitter why they think they chose these cards to describe the situation.  When people are in your space for a reading, most of the time they know the answer, they just want confirmation.  You helped them get it by choosing between a few words.  See you can do this.  Continue this process.

Intermediate and Advanced

Let’s work with the four clairs of working.  So once again there is tension in a relationship.  Do not feel yet.  You are going to get so jumbled in their drama, your fear and get them all muddled up.  We will do that last.  Remember this is about being specific without information.

Clairaudient (clear hearing)

Once again we are going to narrow it down for you instead of trying to figure everything out.

Ask your guides to hear one of these three words:  Friend, Family, or Acquaintance

Your goal is to narrow it down.

Lets narrow it down even more

Ask your guide to hear another word; either CLOSE or FAR

This will denote if the relationship is a close friend or family member or its just bugging them a bit.

Clairvoyant (clear seeing)

Ask to see a colour.  When you see this colour about this tension, simply tell the sitter what that colour means to you and ask them if it makes sense to the issue.  You all know your colours so you will never be left hanging.  Here you know you have something that will never leave you even if nervous.  You will not forget colours.

Clair cognizance (clear knowing)

Ask your guides to just “drop” an answer in your head.  Ask ONE question at a time so your guides can follow your lead.  Simply ask them to let you know if it is bothering your sitter a little or a lot.  Get your answer.  Ask why it is bothering them.  Simply tell them what you are being dropped into awareness of.  Do not doubt yourself.  You don’t know the answer but remember they might not either. There are times where they think it does not bother them much but when you say you think it is more than they know and give them the time to think about it, they will probably agree with you.  Trust me, the energy has to be pretty strong for it to come up in a reading.

Clairsentience (clear feeling) 

Here is a trick.  Do not go into their feelings.  Observe them.  Ask them.  How does it make them feel?  Then ask them how they would like to feel instead?  Get them to talk about their feelings not YOU feeling THEIR feeling.  How can you get to that feeling they want you can ask them?  Everybody is connected to their guides and by asking the questions you are helping them find their answers and not telling them what to do.  You and your sitter will feel better. When you feel somebody else then you have to unfeel him or her.  Some of you do not know how to do this.  Your Guides and Angels do.

There you go everybody.  I hoped this helped you find a way to start with the first words of the book of everybody’s story.  You would get anxious if somebody gave you a 1000 page book and said, “ Here you have 30 seconds to read it and give me a book report”.  But, if the person asked you to read the first sentence and tell them what it said, you could do that with confidence and accuracy. 

One step at a time gets you there.  Remember we see clients privately to help you develop your own abilities that are unique to you.  We can see you live but also do phone readings and Skype anywhere in the world.  Let us know if we can help you find your way to your gifts.

Namaste,

New Moon In Virgo: August 25, 2014

The moon is our closest cosmic brother.  The energy of the moon affects the earth’s water and magnetic pull of the whole planet, including us.  The light from the sun shines through the energy around the Earth from the moon and thus transmits information to the DNA of the human body.  What is this new moon saying to us this month?  Something amazing again.  If you have not noticed, most of the blogs I post are very positive in manner when it comes to the cycles of the moon.  This is because every aspect of the Universe is supportive for you to become healthy and happy. You are not alone.

This new moon is a chance for new starts.  Getting rid of the old thoughts and behaviour patterns and be aware of the need to honour and love yourself.  We hear this over and over again, but some find it hard to do even though they know it is for the best;  they just cannot with consistency.    One of the things the new moon in Virgo lets you do is forgive.  Not just others, but yourself.  It’s ok.  Just let it go.  Your old thought patterns will bring in fear telling you not to let go or it will happen again.  Don’t forgive it tells you.  It keeps you in this pattern.  Write down the names of the people you need to forgive on separate pieces of paper today and make sure your name is included.  Lay them out tonight and let the new moon help the energies.  In the morning pick up the papers, say their name out loud and say you forgive them.  Fold the papers and simply place them in the garbage.  The last name you should choose is your own.  “I forgive myself for not loving myself enough to forgive others for their fear of not being loved”.  Fold this piece of paper and keep it with you in your purse, wallet or by your bed this cycle of the moon to help keep this new way of thinking with you.

It is exhausting to feel under attack all the time.  We use this energy of protecting ourselves in old habits that could be used to grow in a better way.  Ask your Angels and the Angels here on Earth to help you move past the anger and fear.  The healing energy in the Virgo New Moon helps with the details that could be the awareness to finally let go, rest and move forward.  It allows you to move into your heart chakra and see that there is only one thing to forgive with anybody….the fear of not being worthy of love.  We know this is not true so all you are forgiving is that somebody believed they were not worthy of love.  In finding compassion you will find forgiveness and be able to use the pain as a tool of compassion that brings you leaps and bounds forward into the New World Consciousness of peace.

The new moon in Virgo happens this afternoon and it will feel like you just got back from a long hard day at the work and you are allowed to rest.  Rest but then take the time to find where you can make improvements.  The moon is in opposition to Neptune and this can sometimes make you feel confused and lost.  Some have a hard time coping, so use meditation and a nice lavender oil to calm yourself down and stay centered in the heart.    Some of us may do something drastic just to have a change, any change, good or bad, from the situation where we are at the moment when we feel lost.  FIND YOURSELF.  You are feeling bad because you left yourself.  Find your way home through the breath.

The new moon is on what is called a Sabian Symbol of Two Guardian Angels.  They remind you that you do not have to be perfect to forgive yourself, nor do others have to be perfect to forgive their fear of not being worthy of love.   Neptune energy brings in the unconscious and it is time to be conscious of your unconscious habits.  With the energy of Uranus in this field as well it represents an “awakening” so a perfect time to put things in order in your spirit as things are in order in the cosmos to make this happen.   The carbon of our carbon life form here on Earth is from the stars. 

Its home calling you back, and its telling you everything is all right.

Namaste,

What Is Trance Healing?

If you are reading this blog it is because you have an active brain.  Your brain is able to go in and out of different brave wave patterns to assess what is going on in front of you.   It is a communication between neurons without our brains.  Brain waves are produced from electrical pulses from the over 85 billion neurons in your brain communicating in a systematic and harmonious matter.  That is they make sense and flow together nicely.  These brainwaves change depending on how your emotional body is telling the brain to respond to the physical body.

When you are tired and sluggish, the brainwaves are slower, and when you are awake they become faster, and when you are hyper or concentrating they become very active.  The activity is happening all over the brain.  It is false that we only use 10% of our brain in a geographical sense.  We actually are sensing brain waves from all parts of the brain at all times.

When you are doing trance healing, you are allowing your brain wave pattern to kind of sit in the passenger seat and allow Spirit to come to the forefront.   It is very important that you learn how to do trance properly and I highly recommend that you do not try to do it alone to start.   Being in service to Spirit is a high calling and we all have it, but learning who to open the door to is of utmost importance.

There are some people that go deep into Theta while in trance and do not remember a lot of what they said.  They come out of the session and have to be debriefed as to what went on.  I do not teach this form as I find it teaches separation.  I am quite able to share my mind and be able to witness the healing from the passenger seat without being the backseat driver.  When you have such amazing and inspiring energy in the front, you do not want to take control.  You simply are amazed you get to enjoy the ride and learn so much.  You are healing while you heal.

Another thing I want to point out is that here at The Home Of Om, we do not believe we are “healers”.  In order to be a “healer” it means that one must find somebody that is sick to heal.  Our belief is that nobody is sick so nobody needs to be healed.  We know you are a perfect light body of love and are simply under the illusion that you are sick.  We will not confirm what is not there.  We will not break you to fix you.  We want to know why you are denying your place in the world so much that you are making your physical sick.  We are not denying that you are in pain or suffering but we want to find out why you think you deserve it.  Trance healing gets to the ROOT of the issue, not just treat the symptoms.

Why is our trance healing with the Angels different?  You are not the vessel.  The Angels are amazing creatures of light and pure love and do not need a vessel to transcribe this to the Earth.  It also separates your client from his or her own Angels.  Their Angels heal them, not you.  Their Angel’s power and healing abilities far outreach what our mere physical bodies can do.  Look at what a tiny little bullet can do to the human body.  It can kill you.   You cannot imagine the power that is held within an Archangel.  To try to harness that energy into your body is not going to be beneficial for the client or for you.

Some “healers” land up getting tired attached and have to disconnect and even protect themselves.  How about learning how to communicate the healing power of your client’s connection with their Angels by witnessing it and explaining it?  Your voice becomes the only tool you need to help witness the energy.  It empowers and heals you instead of draws from you.  Not only this, but the most important thing is that it empowers your client.  They are doing it and you are privileged enough to witness it.  This means ongoing joy and a resonance of love and support for your client so they can love themselves.  Angels are perfect beings of love and light, and if they love your client, they can learn to love themselves to.

To separate your client from their inherent right to heal their belief system with their Angels and to say you can do what they cannot, in my humble opinion is harmful to the soul.  Instead asking if you can witness the amazing love and healing vibrations they are already carrying but ignoring, lifts your clients to a place they may have forgotten is their true home.  Here there is no illness.

I have seen people cry because this was the first time in ten years they were pain free after the treatment.  I have seen those walk in with canes run out forgetting them on my table.  I have seen the innocence return to victims of crime and pain and watched their inner child be set free with Archangel Michael and Metatron taking them home to heal.   I am a witness to love.  I am blessed for it, not the client.

Trance healing with the Angels Workshop will help you get over the stigma of trance healing and we will work on recognizing the subtle yet powerful energy of the Angels in motion here on this plane.  You will never feel drained again.  We will show you the difference and allow you to simply choose which way is best for you and your clients.  This amazing technique works long distance and even on your pets.

Join us and learn how to unite instead of separate.  When you do this, there is no need for healing.  There is only a need to embrace and who does not want to embrace an Angel? 

You can sign up for this class in our online store.

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Namaste,

My Zen Master’s (Nissim Amon) view on dealing with Accumulating Emotions.

I am happy to share with you that my Trilotherapy teacher finally has an English speaking Facebook page.  My Hebrew sucks!!  Ok it is non-existent.  His words are wise and are touching. 

Sometimes the inner situation is bad and the mind looks outwards to find answers in the spiritual world. I saw this in many monasteries, young men carrying a great pain who sentenced themselves to extended periods of silence and prolonged sitting during meditation. The mind took emotion into a social solitary confinement and searched hidden worlds, with the ambition that one day the great enlightenment will come the pain would immediately be erased.

With adherence to the spiritual practice and discipline, the mind develops a "spiritual ego". This is due to the persistence and moving up in the ranks of the spiritual journey. For emotion, this situation is misleading. Seemingly, the mind and emotion are on a spiritual journey, the "purest" journey that one can make. The mind speaks beautiful words on sacred values, but utilizing its spiritual excuses, the mind convinces emotion to give up on anger or sadness, crying or enjoyment, and forces emotion to be constantly forgiving and full of compassion. I have seen monks proud of their self-imposed suppression, restricting themselves of all forms of sexuality, eating little, sleeping on a hard floor, waking in the middle of the night for an additional practice session, certain that they are the elites of the group. This kind of mind ignores the anger and pain that is in emotion. No process of cleansing and release of accumulated emotions is undertaken. They spoke with nobody about their pain, didn't cry, receive hugs, and there are monasteries that allow their students to be tough on themselves.

I have also met the spiritual types who live the normal city life, who, in the name of compassion, mind enforces restraint upon emotion and the acceptance of bad treatment at work or in a relationship, things which are not good for emotion. The mind will claim that the happiness is internal and does not need to be searched out through external change, nor is there a need to hang lack of joy upon others.

One's inner distress is not solved in the monastery, the middle does not really lead, there is no inner balance, and often there is a hidden depression in emotion. The mind is occupied with the chase after more and more spiritual knowledge, as well as the continuous search for methods, theories and teachers. The spirituals mind's technique of control is misleading and confusing. In addition to reducing the importance of emotion, the mind blames emotion for all slips along the way.

All this is done in order that full recognition for the intense efforts of the mind will reach the yearned for enlightenment, just out of the blue. There is a joke about a man walking down the street, when all of a sudden, a penguin fell on him from the sky. He asked a passerby what to do, and the passerby proposed that he take it to the zoo. The next day the passerby saw him with the penguin again. "I thought you took it to the zoo?" He said. "I did", answered the man, "but today he wants to go see a movie".

Enlightenment is not a penguin that falls suddenly from the skies. You cannot be tough, critical, blame, restrict and suppress yourself, then hope that you receive a prize for it. In the Trilotherapy journey, the ratio is changed between the mind and emotion, illuminating the middle way and understanding that the solution to the riddle of inner happiness is not hidden behind the spiritual ideas of the mind.

The moment that you become considerate and forgiving towards yourself, allow yourself to be sad and to talk about it, allow yourself to cry if it feels right, to have fun, to open up to people; if you decide to love yourself and to rest occasionally in the space that is between your thoughts, the yearned for enlightenment is not quite so distant.

Please feel free like Nissim’s Facebook page and continue the wisdom of Zen.

Namaste,

Self-Rejection. Your worst bad habit

It’s a tug of war isn’t it?  There are moments where you love yourself and think you are amazing, then that little feeling creeps up to remind you that you are not.  You go from feeling proud and happy to not wanting to leave the house and sitting there on the couch quite content to hate yourself for the evening.  Why?

Does it sound off the wall to you that rejecting yourself is a way of protecting yourself from others rejecting you first?  Hey it’s comfortable and not shocking when you do it right?  When others do it, it can take a lifetime to recover.   But what is it actually doing to you?  Is it worth the cost?  Some people go to the extreme of self-harming.   Their inside emotionally pain is so much that they try to manifest and control the pain on the outside.  It is a horrible thing to watch and even more horrible to go through.  On top of that there is an air of shame around it so even if they do it, they hide it and feel worse about themselves.  Now they can add embarrassment and shame to their unworthiness.  Kind of back fired didn’t it?

(for more information on self harming read “ The Bright Red Scream”)

In a recent research article, Doctors found that the most common thing that upsets people is that they are different than others and in a negative way.  It is important to survival to have a community to help us the brain tells us.  If the community does not accept us it can mean death to the reptilian part of the brain that is responsible for fight or flight.  It often tends to come out by feeling like an outcast or a fraud.  That feeling that you don’t really belong or people don’t like you and are just pretending to and at any second the shoe could drop and the gig is up.  You have a critical inner voice.

Dr. Robert and Lisa Firestone found that this inner critic usually comes from bad experiences as a child.  We grow up identifying ourselves as failures.  No parent or caretaker is perfect so we all have this.  Imagine the confusion of one minute you are a good boy or girl because you listened and ate all your dinner, then the next minute you were a bad boy or girl because you did not pick up your toys.  You were punished for the bad part so the good part could not have been worth more your little mind figures.  You are judged on your misdeeds not your successes.   We can all relate to this. It stops you from trying new things, accepting love because they might take it away, hard to accept compliments, and take constructive feedback as a hole through your heart.

How can we change this?  Challenge this inner voice.  DO not let it run untamed through your mind.  We already know it’s a liar.  It never helps you, it hurts you.  Do not hand over your mind to it.  Be aware when it is speaking to you and start to tell the difference between you and your inner critic.  I named mine.  Mine is “Stella”.   I ask Stella to prove what she just said and most of the time she cannot so I dismiss her and take charge of my mind back.  It feels great to put Stella in her place.  Once Stella keeps losing, she does not want to fight as much anymore.  FIRE HER!

Time for a replacement.  Imagine how much your life would change if instead you had an inner critic you had a cheerleader????  Disassociate with the mean thoughts and replace them with positive ones.   “NO YOU CANT” turns to “YES YOU CAN GO FOR IT”. 

Signs it’s your inner critic and not just common sense include.

• It lies
• Has no back up
• Is never pleased
• Never helps you get ahead
• Makes you scared
• Brings you down not up
• Makes ridiculous rules
• Pushes you to do things you are not comfortable doing
• Makes you feel you are not acceptable unless it’s perfect

Let’s face it.  Your inner critic is not somebody you want to identify.  Stop this.  Allow yourself to identify with your true self instead.  You are a Spirit  that is so full of love and deserves to be loved in return.  End of story.  This story does not need a critic.

Namaste,